My Best Friend, Rory GILMORE

The series has two protagonists: witty “thirty-something” mother Lorelai Gilmore and her intellectual teenage daughter Rory. Their backstory is established early in the show: Lorelai grew up in Hartford with her old moneyparents, Richard and Emily, but always felt stifled by this environment. She accidentally became pregnant at age sixteen and left home a year later to raise Rory in the close-knit town of Stars Hollow. Lorelai found work and shelter at the Independence Inn, where she eventually progressed from maid to executive manager. Lorelai and Rory develop a very close relationship, living like best friends, and Lorelai is proud of the independent life she has formed away from her parents. In the pilot episode, she is forced to go to them when Rory is admitted to Chilton Preparatory School, but she cannot afford the tuition fees. Emily and Richard agree to provide a loan, so long as the girls join them every Friday night for dinner. This sets up the show’s primary conflict, as the Gilmores are forced to face their differences and complicated past. The contrasting mother–daughter relationships of Emily–Lorelai and Lorelai–Rory become a defining theme of the show. Series creator Amy Sherman-Palladino has summarized the core of Gilmore Girls:

“I think the theme was always family and connection. I always felt like the underlying thing about Gilmore was that, if you happened to be born into a family that doesn’t really understand you, go out and make your own. That’s what Lorelai did. She went out and she made her own family. The ironic twist in her life is that then this daughter that she created this half family for, likes the family that she left. It was a cycle of crazy family.”

The series also focuses on both girls’ ambition: Rory to attend an Ivy League college and become a journalist, and Lorelai to open an inn with her best friend Sookie St. James. The romantic relationships of the protagonists are another key feature; throughout the series Lorelai has a “will-they-won’t-they” dynamic with her friend, local diner owner Luke Danes, while also harboring unresolved feelings for Rory’s father, Christopher Hayden. Rory has three boyfriends during the run of the show – local boy Dean Forrester, mysterious, well read bad boy Jess Mariano, and wealthy charismatic Logan Huntzberger. The quirky townspeople of Stars Hollow are a constant presence. Along with series-long and season-long arcs, Gilmore Girls is also episodic in nature, with mini-plots within each episode – such as a town festival, an issue at Lorelai’s inn, or a school project of Rory’s.

Source: Wikipedia

It’s a Mother-Daughter thing…

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This show aired in October 2000 and I remember watching it when I was 15-16 years old. Rory Gilmore became my best friend at first sight. If you’ve read my previous posts, you’ll probably think that I hate western series and movies, but that’s not the case. I used to love a lot of movies and shows and I will be writing about it more and more. You will then understand where I’m heading at, starting with Rory G.

Rory is a 16 year-old girl who lives with a mother and barely knows her father. She is very smart, she loves to read, she studies very hard to fulfill her dream which is studying at Harvard after finishing High School. She has a strong relationship with her mother, she trusts her, she’s her best friend.Well, when I watched the first episode, I felt I had so much in common with her. I also grew up with my mom, without a father and few friends. I was very smart, shy, I had (and still have) a strong relationship. I was literally seeing my own life on TV. Thanks to Rory, I started reading and dreaming of having my own dream to follow and work hard for. I admired her steadiness and sometimes envied her stable life. She didn’t have any major problems and she would always stay focused on her dream not matter what. When she fell in love for the first time, then broke up, I was as devastated as she was, I could feel every emotions and sometimes wished I was there with her to ease the pain. I had never felt so connected to anyone like I was with Rory Gilmore. This is the kind of show I really loved to watch from Hollywood even though they also paved the way for teenage sex (Rory did her first time with her ex-boyfriend who happened to be married at the time, but thank God she was already 18 and studying at Yale University), it was less obvious than today.

After all that’s been said, I recommend this show to anyone who’s looking for an inspiring role model especially if you have a teenage daughter. I love this show so much that I usually watch the 7 seasons every year, in September, when school is about to start. Actually, I think I will just buy the whole 7 seasons on the iTunes Store and watch it on my iPad, in English of course.

 

Have you been Notebooked? I have…

Sometimes we need to be apart to understand just how much we love each other

The Notebook

Lately I felt the need to write about this movie. Actually I didn’t want to be cliché or else whatsoever but honestly I’m in love with Love itself so naturally I had to mention this movie on my Website: The Notebook. I first heard of it while watching the TvShow One Tree Hill in which I also learned the expression “to be notebooked” or “to have been notebooked”, basically someone who cries during the movie. Let’s have a little introduction from Wikipedia and then I will give you my thoughts…

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Release date: September 8, 2004

Actors: Ryan Gosling (Noah Calhoun) and Rachel McAdams (Allison Hamilton)

At a modern-day nursing home, an elderly man, Duke, reads a romantic story from his notebook to a fellow patient.In 1940, Seabrook Island, South Carolina, poor quarry worker Noah Calhoun sees 17-year-old heiress Allison “Allie” Hamilton at a carnival and they have a summer love affair. Noah takes Allie to an abandoned house that he intends to buy for them. They try to make love for the first time, but are interrupted by Noah’s friend Fin with the news that Allie’s parents have the police looking for her.When Allie and Noah return to her parents’ mansion, Allie’s mother Anne calls Noah trash and they ban her from seeing Noah. Noah walks out and Allie chases after him. They have an ensuing argument and break up. The next morning, Anne announces that the family is returning home to Charleston. Allie attempts to contact Noah, but is unable to find him, so she asks Fin to tell Noah that she loves him. When Noah gets the message he rushes to Allie’s home, only to find the house gated up and empty.Noah writes to Allie every day for a year but Anne intercepts the letters such that they never reach Allie. Noah enlists with Fin to fight in World War II, where Fin is killed in battle. Allie volunteers in a hospital for wounded soldiers, where she meets captain Lon Hammond Jr., a young lawyer who comes from old Southern money. After a few years being together, the two become engaged, to the delight of Allie’s parents.When Noah returns from the war, his father has sold their home so that Noah can buy the abandoned house. While visiting Charleston, Noah witnesses Allie and Lon kissing at a restaurant; he convinces himself that if he restores the house, Allie will come back to him. Later, while Allie is being fitted for her wedding dress, Allie is startled to see in the newspaper that Noah has completed the house to the specifications she made years before.After Allie asks permission from Lon to take a little trip before the wedding, Allie returns to Seabrook to find Noah living in the restored house. The two renew their relationship and make love. Several days later, Anne appears in the morning on Noah’s doorstep to warn Allie that Lon has followed her to Seabrook. Anne reveals that, in her youth, she had been in love with a lower-class young man and was still thinking about him; Anne then gives Allie the letters that Noah wrote to her as an admission that she had hidden them from Allie. Subsequently, Allie confesses to Lon that she had spent time with Noah, and eventually returns to her relationship with Noah.In the present narrative, it is revealed that the elderly woman is dementia-stricken Allie, Duke is actually Noah and that he had been told by Allie during the early stages of her illness to reread their journals to help her recall her past. She briefly remembers Noah but soon forgets. Her ensuing panic forces medical personnel to sedate her. Noah suffers a heart attack and is sent to the hospital while Allie is sent to a dementia ward in the same hospital. Noah visits Allie’s room in the middle of the night causing her to remember him again and proceeds to remind her of her illness, though he reassures her that they can do anything with the love they share. While sleeping, both Noah and Allie pass away and a nurse discovers them in the morning.

Well, isn’t it the most beautiful story ever? probably not but it depends on the kind of love stories you are craving for. As far as I’m concern, I’ve always wanted to meet my husband at a young age and grow old with him but Life is so unpredictable, you can’t really know what’s going to happen. My last relationship four years ago was entirely based on that idea, I don’t think I was in love with him when I come to think about it, I think I was in love with the idea of him, of us having known each other in High school and reunited years later. We lived together for a year and a half and we broke up because we weren’t meant to be together, we were too different and expected different things from life: I want to be a Conference Interpreter and travel the World and he just wanted to live a simple life in the countryside. Anyway, it might have been the most difficult time of my life, seriously, I didn’t know I could suffer that much; four years later I’m still single because I can’t imagine going through something similar, and I don’t know what I want. People don’t really show their real intentions when coming at you and I don’t want to waste my energy on someone just because I don’t want to be alone. I’ve been there and now I have more self-love and respect for myself to not fall back into these traps. This movie helped me not to give up on Love, I still believe in Love.

Allison and Noah were meant to be together, they had a strong connection from the beginning and it wasn’t just sexually or physically, it was mentally and in every possible ways. They were best friends, they played together, they were young and they weren’t trying to pretend to be anyone else in front of each other. It was them against the whole World. Even when her mother tried to marry her off to a rich and handsome military officer, Noah was still Noah seven years later ! The kind of Love you can only see on TV.

Had I ever known this kind of Love with a capital “L”? I had… When I was very young, he was my first love actually. Funny thing is, he was in love with a friend of mine for a long time but she didn’t know it and at that time I was just fooling around with him, nothing serious, I wasn’t even trying to get him to fall for me or anything, it just happened. I was 11-12 years old at the time in Ivory Coast, it was before I move to France. I used to stay at my uncle’s house to be with my cousins’ because my dad was busy so it was more convenient for me not to be alone. He was my cousins’ neighbour and his sister was a good friend of my older cousin. Long story short, it was a bit complicated, me moving to France, having a new Life, meeting new boys and people etc, like I just said before Life is unpredictable and it failed ! Actually, I don’t even know if we had anything, in fact we never discussed about anything, let’s just say we weren’t meant to be together because I feel like some things were left unsaid, there’s a big question mark but we’ve grown up, we have our lives and I’m happy if he’s doing good so leave it in the past. Anyway, that was the first time I thought I would be with someone my whole life at such a young age, yearning for an Allison and Noah kind of love…

But what is love anyway? I mean do we actually love honestly or are we driven by the ideas that Society brings about all the time through movies and ads etc? I actually try to understand Love but I can’t put myself to find the exact answer so I thought about the kind of love that I would like to encounter if I happen to fall in love again in this lifetime… I think I would like to be pursued, courted, and how is that? I might sound a bit corny but a guy who offers gifts, flowers, knows exactly what you like and put in the efforts to be accepted by you because he knows your worth. This is the kind of relationship I would like to find, not the ego-based one in which you never communicate and it’s always about who’s going to take the initiative. My idea of love is very simple: destiny can’t be forced, if you are meant to be with someone, just be patient, he will come eventually and if he doesn’t, well, being by yourself is not a shame, Life has so much to offer !

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Bonjour à vous amis Poleeglots !
Aujourd’hui, je vous propose de lire la traduction que j’ai faite d’un article du New York Times intitulé Chinese tighten belts: No avocados, cocktails or kids, paru le weekend du 25-26 Août. Je pense que vous avez tous suivi le début de la guerre commerciale entre les Etats-Unis et la Chine depuis le début de l’été. C’est une situation qui inquiète le monde entier et tout le monde veut en savoir plus, notamment sur la situation actuelle de la Chine. Je me concentre sur ces articles qui paraissent pratiquement tous les jours et j’essaye de m’entraîner à les traduire car les tests d’admissions dans les Ecoles de Traduction portent souvent sur des sujets de l’année en cours. Ensuite, cela me permet de travailler mon français qui est ma langue maternelle donc la plus importante dans mes combinaisons de langues puisque je travaillerai surtout vers celle-ci quand je serai Interprète de Conférence.
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Les chinois se serrent la ceinture et disent stop aux avocats, aux cocktails et aux enfants

Le Nouveau Monde Moderne

PAR LI YUAN

Chen Siqi ne dîne plus dehors. Li Keli a arrêté les voyages et à la place emmène son fils sur une aire de jeux publics. Wang Jiazhi a arrêté les rendez-vous amoureux.

La chine accueille le concept de réduction du niveau de consommation, un développement inquiétant pour Pékin et le reste du monde. En Chine, pendant des années, le discours tournait autour de l’augmentation du niveau de consommation. Etant donné que l’économie était en plein essor, la classe-moyenne chinoise forte et croissante de plus de 400 millions d’actifs, décidait de dépenser ces gros gains. Ils ont échangé leurs marques locales contre des Nike, leurs téléphones chinois contre des iPhones et sont passés du thé au latte à 5 dollars du Starbucks. A présent, la Chine voit son économie ralentir et il y va de même pour le shopping. Le marché boursier s’effondre, la monnaie chinoise perd de sa valeur; la guerre commerciale avec le président Trump laisse un goût amer au sein de la population.

La consommation n’a en aucun cas baissé en Chine mais sur internet, les chinois parlent de réduire les dépenses petit à petit. On laisse tomber les avocats, on prend le vélo au lieu du taxi, on préfère les bières aux cocktails en s’assurant qu’elles ne sont pas artisanales, on commande du thé au lait en taille moyenne et on oublie la grande taille, on abandonne son abonnement en salle de sport pour des cours de danse dans les espaces publiques comme les femmes âgées. Certains plaisantent en disant qu’il vaut mieux manger de la viande plutôt que du Tofu étant donné que les taxes sur l’importation du soja ont augmenté. Le plus inquiétant pour les dirigeants chinois est surtout que beaucoup de jeunes sont de plus en plus réticents à l’idée d’avoir des enfants.

Un post intitulé La jeune génération chinoise se prépare à affronter des jours difficiles, par Ming Na, blogueuse, a reçu plus de 300.000 vus sur la plateforme de médias sociaux WeChat en l’espace d’un weekend plus tôt ce mois-ci. Elle conseille aux jeunes de ne plus acheter dans les centres commerciaux et de ne plus fréquenter les clubs. <<Le moment de revoir notre consommation à la baisse est arrivé avec un grand coup de massue>>, écrit Mlle Na.

Chen Siqi a bien reçu le message. Comptable de 30 ans vivant à Pékin, elle vient de s’acheter un vide-ordures sur Pinduoduo, une application chinoise spécialisée dans la vente de produits bon marché, parfois de mauvaise qualité et qui étaient au départ très prisés par les habitants des zones rurales. Son salaire mensuel s’élève à environ 1400 dollars après déduction des taxes, pratiquement la moitié de celui-ci est engloutit par le loyer de son deux pièces. Mlle Chen dit avoir atteint un âge où elle aimerait vivre dans son propre appartement au lieu de vivre en colocation. Dans le but de faire des économies, elle cuisine quelques fois à la maison durant la semaine et achète ses vêtements sur des sites de vendeurs bon marché ou chez Uniqlo, la marque japonaise low-cost. <<J’aimerais avoir un style de vie plus décent mais je ne sais pas comment je pourrais me le permettre>>, affirme-t-elle.

Une baisse du niveau de consommation en Chine peut se ressentir à travers le monde. Les consommateurs chinois ont joué un rôle clé dans le développement économique de leur pays ces dernières années. La Chine à son tour a joué un rôle majeur dans la croissance mondiale. Les consommateurs chinois contribuent à la croissance des entreprises internationales telles qu’Apple, General Motors, Volkswagen et bien d’autres. Si Mr Trump a déjà la certitude que Pékin ne peut pas se permettre plus de dommages économiques, une baisse de la consommation pourrait l’encourager à renforcer cette bataille commerciale avec la Chine.

L’économie chinoise semble forte en théorie mais en pratique, elle présente plusieurs anomalies. Le rythme de la croissance des ventes au détail de cette année est le plus lent depuis plus de dix ans, de même pour l’évolution des salaires dans le secteur privé depuis la crise financière internationale. Le marché boursier a perdu un cinquième de sa valeur.

JD.com, une entreprise chinoise spécialisée dans le e-commerce et qui propose des produits de qualité à la classe moyenne chinoise, affichait des résultats semestriels décevants. Des facteurs à long terme, comme l’augmentation du prix de l’éducation, entraînent une baisse des dépenses chez les jeunes en particulier. Il est devenu très compliqué pour beaucoup d’entre eux de se loger dans les villes riches telles que Pékin. Le prix des loyers est tellement élevé que Mr Wang Jiazhi, 34 ans et ingénieur en semi-conducteurs a dû quitter son deux pièces acheté en 2016 dans le sud de la ville de Shenzhen. En effet, pour pouvoir rembourser son prêt immobilier qui lui coûte plus de 700 dollars par mois et un proche qui lui avait prêté la somme nécessaire pour l’acompte de l’achat de son appartement, il a mis celui-ci en location et partage un cinq pièces avec neuf autres hommes; ce qui lui permet d’économiser 160 dollars tous les mois, sur un salaire d’environ 2000 dollars après paiement des charges. De même que beaucoup de chinois, Mr Wang pense qu’il est préférable d’avoir un appartement afin de trouver une compagne. Mais à cause du stress lié à ses dettes et au soutien financier qu’il apporte à sa famille vivant à la campagne, il a décidé de remettre ses projets de mariage à plus tard. De toute façon ses chances n’étaient pas très grandes alors pour faire des économies, il a mis fin aux rancards, <<Je fais des heures supp’>> dit-il, <<ça m’occupe>>.

En effet, la baisse de consommation bat son plein.

Malgré l’effondrement du marché boursier chinois, les actions des entreprises qui fabriquent des produits de base à des prix abordables comme Erguotou, spécialisé dans la fabrication de liqueur bon marché et de légumes marinés, ont réussi à inverser la tendance. <<Buvez de l’Erguotou et mangez des légumes marinés>> écrivait Mlle Na, blogueuse, en utilisant des mèmes Internet chinois populaires. <<Faites appel à Mobike>> a-t-elle ajouté, nommant une compagnie de vélos en libre-service qui propose des courses à deux roues pour quelques centimes.

Même les enfants uniques des familles de classe moyenne qui constituent un groupe largement à l’abris financièrement, ont des raisons de s’inquiéter pour leur avenir. Wu Xiaoqiong est âgée de 28 ans et vit à l’ouest de la province de Hefei. Elle travaille pour une grande compagnie Internet à Pékin et touche un salaire mensuel de 1500 dollars après prélèvement des charges. Quand elle s’est mariée l’an dernier, ses parents et ses beaux-parents ont chacun avancé la moitié de l’apport pour l’achat d’un deux pièces, un arrangement fréquent entre familles de classe moyenne. Environ deux tiers de leurs revenus mensuels est utilisé pour le remboursement du prêt immobilier et pour la location d’un petit appartement à Shanghai où son mari travail dans une banque publique. Son plan pour réduire ses dépenses est de rester sans enfants. <<Nous n’avons ni économies ni plan de retraite>>, affirme-t-elle, <<mes parents continuent de m’aider financièrement, comment pourrais-je élever un enfant?>>.

Certains s’opposent à l’idée d’avoir plus d’enfants, un problème pour les autorités chinoises qui s’inquiètent du vieillissement de la population.

<<Pensez-vous avoir d’autres enfants?>>, Li Keli, agent comptable chez un fabricant de matériels électroniques dans le sud de la ville de Huizhou répond <<Certainement pas>>. En juin dernier, son usine a licencié les deux tiers des salariés quand la guerre commerciale s’est intensifiée entre la Chine et les Etats-Unis. Son salaire mensuel de 500 dollars a subi une baisse de 10%. Elle voyageait souvent les weekends pour aller visiter les villes voisines avec son fils de 7 ans; désormais, ils se contentent des aires de jeux gratuites dans les quartiers résidentiels.

On ressent aussi de l’inquiétude parmi ceux qui gagnent plutôt bien leur vie. Chen Ying, une architecte de 33 ans vivant à Shanghai met une croix sur le shopping dans les grands magasins. Mlle Chen ajoute qu’elle ne s’attend pas à voir son salaire augmenter, car celui de ses jeunes collègues n’atteint pas celui qu’elle touchait quand elle est arrivée dans l’entreprise quatre ans plus tôt; et aujourd’hui, ses revenus sont moins élevés que ceux de ses anciens collègues qui, il y a quatre ans, avaient son niveau d’expérience actuel. Les augmentations de salaire avoisinaient les taux de 15-20% par an, ce qui n’est pas étonnant pour un secteur dont la croissance a explosé en Chine au cours de ces dix dernières années. A présent, Mlle Chen prévoit une augmentation de 5%, si toutefois il y en avait une. Elle aimerait prendre sa retraite mais ne saurait par où commencer. <<Avant, nous avions des perspectives d’avenir illimitées>>, conclue-t-elle, <<aujourd’hui, nous vivons au jour le jour>>.

Can we go back to the 80s?

Did you ever wish you were born in a different generation?

Well, I did and still do…
Ever since I started speaking English, I always wanted to find a way to improve and the best way to do so is to immerse yourself in the culture whether it’s movies, music, books or else, I’m totally buying it ! But the problem is, you need to get the proper English not only the colloquial one spoken on the streets. So I figured it would be best to listen to Rock bands (e.g. The Beatles) and watch movies starting from the 80s. That’s how I discovered and fell in love with Molly Ringwald, I learned to dance with “Footloose”and Patrick Dempsey taught me that we cannot buy Love.

Before starting to introduce you to my favorite movies (cf photos), let me explain why I chose the 80s. Indeed, I’ve always been a helpless romantic and dreamer. I’m in love with Love itself and especially good love stories based on Respect and Kindness. Nowadays, people take their relationship for granted. A man will no longer fight for the woman he loves, he will no longer pay any attention to the details (gifts, flowers…) because he thinks “there are plenty of fish in the sea”. Actually, he just needs to download an application like Tinder, Happen and it’s a done deal, the same goes for the woman I know it because I’ve been there myself. In 2018, Love has become a temporary emotion and sex is its mean of satisfaction, and I feel like this is the kind of message that’s being sent in movies and TVshows nowadays. To be honest, I used to watch a lot of them but now I feel like this is not the way I want to live anymore, I’m having an awakening and starting to embrace my true-self, not trying to please anyone and if they don’t like it, fine, I can live with it. As a woman, I thing it’s very important to be cherished, loved, taken care of without having to give anything in return. A man should treat his wife the way he treats his mother and the way he would like his sister to be treated. This is a basic rule of nature, treat the people around you the way you would like to be treated, I don’t think that’s complicated. But today, in the Western World (or elsewhere), people do whatever they want without even respecting the sensibility of others !! It’s completely outrageous and beware of the names they will call you if you’re not a good “sheep”. Well… I’m sorry, this is the way it is, I’m a human being, I’m conscious and I can make the difference between good and evil, and what’s acceptable and what is not. I don’t need bogus theories which are complete nonsense to please the masses. It might be a bit cliché but “BE yourself and THINK for yourself”…

Anyway, after all’s been said, let’s get to the quick introduction of the movies cited below and I will begin with FOOTLOOSE (main lead: Kevin Bacon and Lori Singer) which totally relates to my point stated in the second paragraph of this post. What’s the story? A boy moves from Chicago and ends up living in the small town of Bomont. He loves dancing but can’t fulfill his wish because there are some restrictions in the little town where people go to Church on Sundays and consider dancing as evil. He will start fighting these laws alongside his new friends Willard and Ariel (Wikipedia) Do you understand my point so far? If you don’t and I’m pretty sure that is the case, then it doesn’t matter because when I first watched this movie few years ago, I was footloosing and dancing around the house and talking about freedom of dance etc. Well, today I realize that it may be a whole agenda going on here because in our society it’s like a shame to be talking about God, Faith, Spirituality, actually it’s boring and not “cool” at all. People who go to Church or to the Mosque are oftentimes ridiculed, insulted, marginalized by society. The more young, wild and free you act, the more you get praised by society and the propaganda started right in the 80s. You might think that the word “propaganda” is a be strong here but I think not. Indeed, it’s exactly what’s going on. Some talk about “Tolerance”, “Equality”, “Freedom of speech” but it’s clearly a myth because when you are against or when you don’t accept the popular beliefs you are automatically stigmatized… It goes on and on and my question would be: Are we building a godless society? When I was studying in Barcelona we had a lesson about religions in our society and the teacher asked us what is our greatest fear, and a girl from Russia answered: A Society in which there would be no God. I was totally surprised because it’s very rare to meet this kind of people with such thoughts today…

Next on the list, we have CAN’T BUY ME LOVE (main lead: Patrick Dempsey and Amanda Peterson), is the typical american love story, the NERD who falls in love with the Prom’ Queen… The story? Ronald Miller is a typical high school nerd living in suburban Tucson, Arizona. He has spent all summer mowing lawns to save up for a telescope. At an opportune moment, he makes a deal with next-door neighbor and popular cheerleader Cynthia “Cindy” Mancini. Cindy had borrowed her mother’s expensive suede outfit without permission, to wear to a party, only to have Quint accidentally spill red wine on it. Cindy reluctantly agrees to help Ronald look “cool” by pretending to be his girlfriend for a month for $1000, even though she already has a boyfriend named Bobby who is attending the University of Iowa (Wikipedia)I know it might be a bit corny but honestly it’s pure and simple just how I think life of a normal teenager should be, there’s nothing wrong with being a NERD everybody deserves to love and be loved in return…

Finally, last but not least, the best of the best, to me she’s the best teenage actress of the 80s: Molly RINGWALD (Molly Kathleen Ringwald (born February 18, 1968) is an American actress, singer, and author. She was cast in her first major role as Molly in the NBC sitcom The Facts of Life (1979–80) after a casting director saw her playing an orphan in a stage production of the musical Annie. She and several other members of the original Facts of Life cast were let go when the show was reworked by the network. She subsequently made her motion picture debut in the independent film Tempest (1982), which earned her a Golden Globe nomination for New Star of the Year. Ringwald is known for her collaborations with filmmaker John Hughes, having appeared in three of his films.After appearing in the successful Hughes films Sixteen Candles (1984), The Breakfast Club (1985), and Pretty in Pink (1986), Ringwald became a teen icon. She later starred in The Pick-up Artist (1987), Fresh Horses (1988) and For Keeps (1988). She starred in many films in the 1990s, most notably Something to Live for: The Alison Gertz Story (1992) and The Stand (1994). Ringwald is part of the “Brat Pack” and she was ranked number 1 on VH1’s 100 Greatest Teen Stars. Ringwald currently portrays Mary Andrews on The CW television series Riverdale). Wikipedia

. I’ve seen all her movies and selected 3 of them as the best:

  1. PRETTY IN PINK (High school senior Andie Walsh lives with her underemployed working class father, Jack, in a Chicago suburb. Andie’s best friend, Phil “Duckie” Dale, is in love with her, but is afraid to tell her how he truly feels. In school, Duckie and Andie, along with their friends, are harassed and bullied by the arrogant “richie” kids, specifically Benny Hanson and her boyfriend Steff McKee, who is secretly interested in Andie.) Wikipedia
  2. THE BREAKFAST CLUB (On Saturday March 24, 1984 at Shermer High School in Illinois, Pampered Claire Standish, champion wrestler Andrew Clarke, geek Brian Johnson, outcast Allison Reynolds, and delinquent John Bender gather in the school library for weekend detention. Assistant principal Richard Vernon instructs them not to talk, move from the seats, or sleep until they are released that afternoon. He assigns them a 1,000-word essay in which each must describe to him “who they think they are”. He leaves, returning only occasionally to check on them.) Wikipedia
  3. SIXTEEN CANDLES (High school sophomore Samantha “Sam” Baker struggles to go through the day on her 16th birthday, which her entire family has forgotten about because her older sister, Ginny, is getting married the next day. She is also plagued by infatuation with a popular and attractive senior, Jake Ryan. At school, she fares no better when she finds out that a completed “sex quiz”, which she tried to surreptitiously slip to her friend Randy, never reached her and, unbeknownst to either of them, was picked up by Jake. Despite her name not being on the quiz, Sam is still a bit panicked because the quiz contains sensitive information, such as how she is a virgin and is saving herself for Jake.) Wikipedia